Housecleaning & How I Got Off the Habit Carousel

Grasshopper Confessional: Sooo, when I graduated from school and got my first high paying job, I did not immediately buy a car, or a Gucci purse. Nope. I began to pay for a cleaning service (yes. Maids!) to come to my house and clean for me every two weeks. Decadent. I know. And, I LOVED it. I figured that I was working full-time, and earning a lot of money. Ergo, I was entitled to use my free time to do fun stuff. And “fun stuff” did not (and for the…

A Family That Saves Together Stays Together (and Retires Early Together)

Lonesome frugality is – I assume –  like being a solitary nudist; not that much fun. For the longest time, I battled Mr. Grasshopper’s frugality. I saw his inventive ways to cut back as deranged efforts to deny me the comforts I earned, and was happy to pay for myself. I couldn’t visualize the goal; so, the sacrifices seemed too great. It wasn’t until I sat on that dock during our vacation and envisioned a future with Financial Independence that I was able to sign on to purposeful spending. (http://www.grasshopperretiresearly.com/?s=i+am+the+grasshopper) While I still will…

Of Living Purposefully

SMr. Grasshopper and I are learning that we can buy what we want – even luxuries – and travel our path to Financial Independence if we only live and spend purposefully. Last night, excited by the 2016 Presidential campaign, I became convinced that I wanted an overpriced T-Shirt in support of my favorite candidate.  I informed Mr. Grasshopper of my imminent purchase as my stubby digit hovered over the button to finalize the online purchase. He didn’t gush excitedly as I expected him to. He only asked me if I really wanted it, and then meandered…